How do I talk to my partner about breast augmentation?
If you are thinking about getting breast implants, bringing this up with your significant other is an important step in the decision-making process. But for many patients, the stigma around plastic surgery or “getting work done” makes it feel like a hurdle to overcome. Below, our Reading plastic surgery team shares tips for how to talk with your partner about your choice to have breast augmentation.
Ask yourself: What does this mean to me?
It is not uncommon for patients to have trouble finding the words to explain to others how much this decision means to them. Some also receive negative feedback from friends or family because of the lingering stigma around plastic surgery. If you are concerned that your SO may not understand, consider what taking this step means for you in terms of personal confidence.
While many people still picture an exaggerated Pamela Anderson-style figure when they think of breast implants, the majority of breast implants patients (nearly 300,000 annually) simply want to fill out a swimsuit top or wear other form-fitting clothing. Having balanced, feminine curves can provide a feeling of confidence and femininity. Many women also choose breast augmentation (sometimes with a lift) to combat signs of aging and achieve a youthful, confident figure.
The decision to undergo breast augmentation should be rooted in what you feel is right for your body and self-confidence.
Try journaling about how this change might affect your life to find words to express how important making this change could be to you. As well, reading experiences from others online may help you find ways to convey your feelings to your partner. Several of our Reading breast augmentation patients agreed to share their stories and photos of their confident “afters”—read about them here.
Learn about the procedure
Knowing the facts before having a conversation can be especially helpful when it comes to discussing breast augmentation. Read about the surgery and recovery involved so that you will have confidence while talking with your partner about the ins and outs of what’s involved—as well as the risks— if they are interested or have questions.
Here are some resources that can help you learn the basics of breast augmentation, breast implant choices, and the risks of the surgery:
- Overview of the surgery and your breast implant options
- Dr. Reedy’s Rapid Recovery protocols
- Safety considerations
- What is and isn’t normal after breast augmentation
- Combining breast implants with a breast lift
Research plastic surgeons
Finding a reputable, experienced plastic surgeon is a key first step—and locking in this choice will help you address any concerns your partner may have about your safety, as the procedure is considered to be very safe in the hands of a breast surgery expert.
Before you schedule a consultation appointment, check for the following basics:
- Board certification in plastic surgery
- Years of specific experience with breast augmentation surgery
- Accredited, private operating suite
- Exceptional, unfiltered before & after results
- Financing options, if desired
You may then choose to schedule consultations with various surgeons that meet these criteria until you find the perfect fit.
This is your decision alone
Some people feel pressure from a partner to undergo breast augmentation, while others feel ashamed to bring it up at all. If you fear your partner’s reaction to a personal choice about your body, we encourage you to remember your appearance and how you express yourself is 100% your own choice. The decision to undergo breast augmentation should be rooted in what you feel is right for your body and self-confidence.
About Berks Plastic Surgery in Reading, PA
If you are considering breast surgery, we would be more than happy to talk with you further. You may schedule a personal consultation with one of our highly-qualified breast surgeons, Dr. Reedy and Dr. Lindsay, by submitting a contact form on our website or calling our practice directly at 610-320-0200.
